Advice: Keeping a girlfriend

So I was asked how to seduce a woman, progress into a relationship and then keep the girl. I don´t really want to write about the seduction thing again. BUT I would like to give my opinions on keeping a woman.

Listen to her. If she has mentioned that something you do bothers her, change your behaviour. If changing your behaviour means changing yourself completely, however, you may want to reconsider the relationship. You shouldn´t ever change your ideals for another person. If it doesn´t feel right, then don´t do it. Like, don´t fucking stop being Vegetarian because she likes meat or something like that, but if she fucking asks you to start doing the dishes more often or stop leaving your shit everywhere - do what she says. Just shut the fuck up, get off your ass and do it. Why? Because it makes her life easier.

I tell this to guys and their like ¨HURR DER when I do what she says without her asking, I don´t get any praise, not even a thankyou.¨
Well, dumb ass, if you´d rather her having a bitch and getting annoyed, keep on truckin´.

Be considerate. Recognize when she needs you to be there for her and when she needs to be alone. Now, women are really complicated creatures, like I said before, so you need to understand when she says ¨I want to be alone¨ could mean a whole heap of things.
a) I´m saying this because I want you to make the effort
b) Hold me.
c) I don´t want to fucking talk to you, asshole.
d) I am so disappointed.

Confide in her. Open up to her in a way that you don't do for most people. Keep her secrets when she does the same to you. This builds trust and trust is really important to girls. You break our trust once and it hurts forever, really. We say that we don´t care or that we forgive you, but in the future something can trigger it and it plays on our minds. Don´t lie. Seriously, sometimes it is easier to lie, but lying just doubles the distrust. If you fuck up and then lie about it, that´s two things she has to feel distrustful about and, in most cases, she will be more upset that you lied.

Defend her. If someone is teasing her take her side or no side.
There is NOTHING worst then fighting a losing battle against your boyfriend. The worst thing you can do is tease her in front of people. Why would you want someone you really like/love feel like their worthless? Because that is most likely how she would feel, man.

Make her feel special. While it is completely permissible for you to be friends with other girls, don't flirt. Don't talk about other girls' appearances in front of her either, even if it's a celebrity, unless you have the type of relationship where you are both okay with it. Tell her occasionally: "You're my only girl" or "you're the only girl I have feelings for" or something similar.

* Never ignore her. It hurts immensely, and if you ignore her enough it may make her think about dumping you (although she won't let you know unless she decides to go through with it). Don't leave her waiting, either.

* Text her when you're thinking about her. But DO NOT text anything you might not want her friends or family to read. Because once you have sent it, its on her phone forever for anyone to read.

Compliment her. Tell her she is beautiful, especially when she least expects it. Girls can spend a lot of effort trying to look nice, and it will make her happy that you noticed. Make your compliments meaningful and truthful. Instead of "Your hair is pretty," try "I really like the way you did your hair tonight! It looks so beautiful." or instead of ¨I like your eyes¨ be like; ¨Your eyes are the most beautiful shade of -whatever- today.¨
Say what you like about what you like! Any guy can say a boring old compliment, but when it is personalised she will cherish it.

Don't take her for granted. Keep in mind that she could leave you whenever she wanted, so you'd better work hard at keeping her happy so that you can keep her as your girlfriend.



AND do not use her past against her. Seriously, if you want a FUTURE with her, don´t bring the past up in arguments or judge her too harshly.